MARRIED MEN LIVE LONGER THAN SINGLE MEN,BUT .......

"Married men live longer than single men, but, married men are a lot more willing to die" once remarked an anonymous writer.
One is tempted to touch on this subject over this weekend as we all celebrate the beauty, honour and dignity that our African women have exhibited for the entire global village to witness during the second millenium.

However, a pertinent question arises whether be they young, old or mature have the members of 'fairer sex' truly found happiness in their personal lives?

One eminent scholar wrote "No Woman-especially one who's succesful and independent- wants to be thought/seen of as desperate for love.
But, if you're 30 years and over, and have a graveyard of failed relationships behind you, you should by now understand; 'Love isn't Easy' ".

'LadyFriends', you're implored to read "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man" by Steve Harvey.

Harvey's advise is the following: 'only get involved with a man with the qualities you are looking for, suss out his intentions with vigorous, but subtle, interrogation before falling in love, wait at least 90 days before sleeping with him; and when you are comfortable with the fact that he can handle your cherups and is doing the three 'Ps' (i.e Protecting, Providing and Professing) marry him.

On page 201, Harvey gives a trick to every single woman about how to get that "Will you M...?"
It is not to ask him to marry you {Men are hunters and they like the chase}. You first need to tell him what he must do with you once he's caught you".

Harvey also got tips for the 'Woman who has it all' ; the drop-top BMW X5, Ferrari,Cayenne, the BEE tenders, the expensive jewelery and the proud tenant of that upmarket bond in the leafy surburb but goes to an empty home alone daily.

"You are not alone because men are afraid of your independence and wealth. You're alone because you do not know how to act like a well-nurtured girl" he cautions.

Latsly, but not least, there's also that life-enhancing book penned by Dr Connel Cowan and Dr Melvyn Kinder which outlines the man's behaviour in relationships.

Fellow sisters, or rather single women, page through the timeless "Women Men Love, Women Men Leave" whereby one submits it will benefit all those women that spend tremendous amount of their precious time over-analysing the 'man-in-love' motives, or say 'their hidden agenda' if ever one exists.